tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-61525157184354596362024-03-14T01:50:15.777-05:00secret asian girlsecret asian girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09463857749771146236noreply@blogger.comBlogger373125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6152515718435459636.post-80537215720622750572016-04-11T10:43:00.001-05:002018-08-11T00:44:06.711-05:00What Secret Asian Girl is Reading<div style="text-align: center;">
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Circling the Sun </span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">by Paula McClain</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> </span><span style="background-color: white; color: #181818; font-size: 14px;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I</span></span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #181818;"> used to play the soundtrack to the film Out of </span></span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #181818; font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> McClain's novel is the story of real-life Beryl </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #181818; font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> flying solo across the Atlantic from Europe the U.S. </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #181818; font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> Kenya. At a time when women were expected to </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #181818; font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> veranda, Beryl was forced to marry at 14 when </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #181818; font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> her father's horse farm failed and he moved away. </span></div>
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #181818; font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">socialized with, many of the well-to-do white settlers who viewed Kenya as a way to make money and escape the confines of European society. It was here that she befriended famed author Karen Blixen, aka Isak Dinesen, whose autobiographical novel Out of Africa would come to define life of an expatriate in Nairobi. Blixen's affair with hunter Denis Finch Hatton fascinated Beryl and she began her own affair with Hatton, a love triangle which would continue off and on for the rest of his life.</span><span style="background-color: white; color: #181818; font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> </span></div>
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"><br style="color: #181818;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #181818;">The novel is beautifully written, redolent of the wildness and beauty of Africa at the beginning of the 20th century. The author makes you feel the blinding heat and heartbeat of the nearby tribes, smell the frangipani and wild lilies. McClain's ability to capture the indomitable spirit of Beryl as she went through the heartbreaking loss of her farm, saying goodbye to family and a love for a man who would never really love her back drew me in, experiencing with her the choices she was forced to make. It's important to keep in mind the timeframe the characters are in; women didn't have many choices, especially without a man by your side. In some ways, the story was a Downton Abbey in Africa, where reputation was everything and it took incredible courage to step outside of convention in order to survive. This novel made me interested in reading Ms Markham's autobiography, West With the Night. Listen to John Barry's amazing soundtrack as you read this. You'll imagine yourself flying over the African plain feeling like you can do anything.</span></span>secret asian girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09463857749771146236noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6152515718435459636.post-21256375488311353552016-02-24T22:51:00.000-06:002016-02-24T23:04:50.646-06:00What secret asian girl is Reading<div style="text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">On Lone Star Trail is the first book I've ever read that is a self-described "Contemporary Christian Romance" so I wasn't really sure what to expect. Of course, I had preconceived ideas about what I thought it would be like, and...I was pretty much on target. Books like these are for a very specific audience, none of which applies to me. In spite of</span> that, I will say that this novel was fairly well-written, without too many overtly religious references and didn't make me </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">We meet the main character, Gillian Hodge, while she is recovering, more mentally than physically, from a auto/motorcycle accident that has ended her career as a concert pianist. She blames motorcycles, fate, her dad and herself for boxing herself into a job that can be so easily taken from her. She has decided to visit her pregnant best friend in Blytheville to get her mind off her troubles and figure out what to do next. Since this is also a romance, this is where the "meet cute" occurs. A handsome man on a motorcycle loses control of his bike in front of her and she is forced to help him by taking him with her to visit her friend's vacation lodge. Ah, the irony! While there, she promises herself she won't fall in love, won't ever play the piano again and won't feel sorry for herself, all of which (of course) happens during her brief stay. Other than choosing which perfect man to choose and counseling some wayward teens, there isn't much conflict. Money is not a problem, finding a relationship is not a problem, there are no moral or ethical conundrums, no crime, no strife. There is also no diversity in the town itself.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">The problem I have with this type of book is that they depict a privileged character with mild problems in a Mayberry town with other people exactly like her. Every storefront is cute and homey, everyone's business seems to be thriving and everyone knows everyone else and they all like each other. Basically, a white, upper-middle class girl with not a lot to worry about except to look at her many options and choose which one makes her happiest. While it seems glaringly unrealistic, I've heard there are places like this - I've just never met anyone who's ever lived there, under the age of 70 at least. This must be the "great" part of America that certain politicians are saying we need to get back to. Trouble is, there's no place for me there and I doubt I'd be welcome anyway, which is probably what makes everyone want to return there.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I'm not saying that every novel has to be culturally diverse and realistic either. By definition, this genre is escapism. Not everyone wants to be slugged in the face with real life problems when they sit down to read a book. In that case, I applaud Ms Cabot's novel for being a great getaway from reality. As to the religious aspect of the book, I was glad to see it wasn't an overriding theme throughout the story. I am not a religious person so I don't understand how it helps but I do know that for some people it is comforting and reassuring. I also know that a crisis of faith can be as devastating for some as a crisis of self-esteem or confidence. The characters face all of these as they struggle to recover from great personal loss. The most "risqué" part of the story involves (gasp!) pre-marital sex, in this case with underage minors. Since nothing really happens, there is, again, no actual conflict although the bullet is dodged close enough to require a rescue and a lot of praying. The lack of sexual tension in the story, for a romance novel, is, quite honestly, a relief. Ground-shaking kissing is about as racy as it gets, which is way better than the clumsy, sexist, soft porn found in a lot of romance novels.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">If you long for the simplicity of life in the 1950's, a Gidget-style romance with "gosh golly I think I'm in love with him" moments, this novel is for you. It's sweet and wholesome, clean and vanilla. The people in it have little to no character flaws, kids respect their elders and babies are born with no complications. I can't remember if there's any profanity but nothing stands out. I'm sure there's an audience out there for it but unfortunately, it wasn't me.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">February is Black History Month, so it seemed </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> appropriate that I picked up Mourner's Bench to </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> read when I was just finishing a display at work of </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> notable African-American novelists. This novel </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> takes place in a town I've never heard of, Maeby, </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> Arkansas in 1964, a year I was alive in. I have </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> very vague memories of school integration, </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> having attended public school in the 1960's and </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> 70's but I do remember the people involved. My </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> elementary school was 99% white, and the only </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> Asians were my family: me, my sister and a </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> cousin. It was a time when we knew it was too </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> late to say "Negroes or colored people," and too</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> early to say, "African-American" so "Black" </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> seemed to stick, although hesitantly. We were not </span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> </span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> unaware of the great social changes going on </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> around us, even if we didn't wholly understand </span><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> them. There was one black girl at my school,</span><br />
<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> Janice, the daughter of the school cafeteria lunch lady, and she was in my class. I saw how my white friends stayed a few steps away from her, even while seemingly accepting of me, despite my obvious differences. I was not yet "Asian" but "Oriental," the political incorrectness of which, I only recently had to explain to my now 87 year old mother. (I believe I am still a "Pacific Islander" on some government documents but that's another story). Anyhow, Janice and I got along easily, two odd birds finding comfort in our shared discomfort, but I had family and always wondered how isolated she must have felt. Middle School ended up being an urban mix of blacks and Mexicans, with a minority of White kids, and Orientals were (again!) mostly my family with a few probably distant relations. Interestedly, Janice gravitated away from the friends she'd made (or pretended to make) in elementary school and found commonality with black kids who were part of the desegregation busing experiment of the early 1970's here in the South. I completely understood Janice's need to be with people who shared her experience. After we changed schools we never spoke again, which saddened me.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">In Mourner's Bench, while the story's background is the early school integration of black children into white schools, much of the conflict is within the main character, 8-year old Sarah, who is torn between the comfort of what she knows and the prospect, and danger, of the unknown. Like my mother's generation, Sarah's grandmother, Muhdea, is hesitant and fearful of change. Granny, Muhdea's mother, is also afraid for Sarah but it's a concern based on past experience, some of which was steeped in deep violence and hatred. Racism and intolerance are obviously not new problems and not likely to go away soon (if today's political climate is any indication) but the concept of "separate but equal" and "integration" were new back then. Sarah's idealistic, fair-weather mother, Esther, is a product of the new courage of the era but her elders have seen what happens to trail-blazers with no support and they are fearful. Most books that deal with this subject emphasize the strength and moral conviction of the characters. I was gratified to see that while there is that, there is also a side seldom seen: the grappling with reality, the courage but also the dread of repercussions. It was still a white person's world at the time and they were not the only group resistant to change. At some point, someone says, "The colored school is good enough," which is not so much statement of resignation but one of protection of their loved ones when the odds are not exactly in your favor. Esther has the confidence of the truly untested and is like a bulldozer when it comes to pushing her idealism on her family, leaving Sarah unsure which side to take. Change, especially the hard-won kind, comes neither easily nor without risk.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I really enjoyed reading Mourner's Bench. I wasn't sure what a "mourner's bench" was exactly, so I had to look it up. I think Sarah was so anxious to sit on the bench not just to own her own sins but also to lay claim to her own life, not Esther's and not her family's. I loved the way the author described life in poverty stricken Arkansas, from the deeply religious devotion of the community, to collard greens and fat back smells to the crunchy gravel roads and the rare ice cream treats at the diner back door. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">As I read, I couldn't help but picture Norman Rockwell's famous 1963 painting of 6-year old Ruby Bridges, as she walks, </span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">head held high, into the newly desegregated school in Mississippi, flanked by U.S. marshals, graffiti and thrown tomatoes staining the wall behind her. She's an icon, and a national symbol but I'm sure all she was worried about was making friends that day or keeping her dress nice, or trying to fit in. The innocent concerns of little girls everywhere. Girls like Sarah and...I suppose, like Janice, too. </span><br />
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</span> <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">The fact that the premise of a family living in a cemetery does not raise </span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">eyebrows is social commentary in and of itself. The problem of homelessness in this country has escalated to terrible proportions and </span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">Copper's story is symptomatic of this. A story like this one would have believability issues 30 years ago. But today, a young girl living on the </span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">streets among crazed murderers and evil rapists (and evangelical preachers) is just exposition. Oh, I forgot to add that there's a Street Killer on the loose in the area, but for Copper, the threat of being murdered is just one more obstacle to finding her mom. Suffice it to say, the odds are against her but since she doesn't have a stone sword like the Warrior Angel, a statue she lives near, wields, she must use the only weapon she has to solve the daunting task in front of her: her wits. As the story progresses it becomes less of finding her mother and more of navigating a world that ignores her kind. "The Street Killer's message reminds us all," she observes, "God hates the poor."</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I thought the book was well-written, medically technical without being overly so, and maintained a folksy, home-grown quality about it, reminiscent of James Herriot's All Creatures Great and Small. In fact, one of the best chapters in the book was about his beloved dog, Dice, whose goofiness and lovable personality reminds us that respect for life extends beyond humans. I loved the parade of colorful patient characters, vividly drawn by Dr. Hutton while still maintaining their dignity and the seriousness of their maladies. Funny, stubborn, and often familiar personalities are the heart of this memoir where the people, not the diseases, take center stage. Many of the vignettes cover years of patient history, beginning with the vague symptoms, following through to triumphant recovery or tragic finales. The narrative is clinical but sympathetic and deeply personal.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"> From the very beginning, there are racially-inspired murders, </span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">a whorehouse, complete with an iconic madam with a heart of gold, alcohol-fueled violence, LOTS of detailed descriptions of firearms told with a reverence usually reserved for saints, and crude language focused on sexual exploits toward women who are usually described based on how her skirt clings to her thighs. Oh...and the Holy Grail. The legendary Cup of Christ in this story was the main reason I was interested since I read a lot of historical novels, some with religious lore as the subject. This book does not in any way fall into that category.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I found myself skimming through most of the book, although there were a few passages with beautiful descriptions of life in the early 20th century West and Trinidad. "The peaks of the mountains disappeared into the clouds, their slopes so immense that the forests in the ravines resembled clusters of emerald-green lichen on gray stone." Unfortunately, these brief, colorful respites were interrupted by tired, clichéd lines like, "I've been rode hard and put away wet, </span><span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Padré." Ack. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">The protagonist, Hackberry Holland (wow), is an alcoholic, sometime-Texas Ranger with a propensity towards violent solutions, a combination that seems to be almost shrugged off by the author. There's lots of holes put in heads, and bullying or killing but all of that is okay, I supposed, because it's the old west where Man is Man and that's what they do. He's married to Maggie but has a child named Ishmael with a prostitute named Ruby. He spends a lot of time figuring out which one he wants, and of course, both want him. When he gets upset, he rides his horse, which he likes, so hard that the horse collapses. Hack gets off, steps over the animal and looks out over the mesa, contemplating who he will kill next.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I've seen this book described as a "classic novel of the West." I don't think so, because I've read some really good western novels that depict life in that era as more than just whiskey and women, although I'll admit, the main female characters here were fairly independent, given the time. Not all books should have modern viewpoints thrust upon them; historical accuracy should take precedence. But just as flagrant use of the "N" word doesn't seem fitting in works written today (another criticism I have of this book) neither does outdated stereotypes of any kind fit into the description of "classic" any more. Perhaps new definitions are needed for all modern genres that no longer fit the tiresome mold.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Keep in mind that I am not the target audience so my perspective, while honest, is without prejudice to fans who do enjoy the genre. Unfortunately, I don't know how else to write a review except from my own particular viewpoint, so the following is only an opinion, with neither pretense nor apology.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Assuming that most of Diana Palmer's readers are women, I can see where a story like this one is escapism in its purest form. I wish women weren't so hung up on a "Daddy Complex" where they fantasize about a man who takes care of them like a porcelain doll, where every need is taken care until their dad is replaced by a younger (but not much) and hotter version of Daddy. He then steps in to take care of their every need leaving them with, well, not much to do except bask in their adoration and decide which swimsuit makes their ridiculously firm bodies, the appearance of which is always a total surprise to them, look sexier.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Okay, the good stuff: the writing is rich with local color and redolent of the sights and aromas of Texas culture in 1962. I didn't get here until 1964 but I'm pretty sure not much changed (or has changed, in some cases). The author, "Miles Arceneaux," aka John T. Davis, Brent Douglass and James R. Dennis, infuses the story with historical markers like Karankawa Indian sites, Teddy Roosevelt's infamous javelina hunt in 1892 or the devastation of Hurricane Carla the year before. All fairly obscure references, unless one is a local or long-time resident of the area. Many of the descriptions of the area exist only in the memories of folks familiar with the nuances of the Gulf Coast circa early 1960's. The atmosphere jibes with my own memories of going to Galveston in the 1960's, driving onto the beach (you could do that back then) hanging a sheet over the open door of our 1968 Oldsmobile and spending the day in the fine sand and clear waters, searching for shells and sand dollars. Reading this book brought me back to those days but they are definitely gone. I loved the memory of Coke floats and crushed shell roads, though. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #181818; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">I don't know if you have to have lived through the 1970's to fully appreciate this book or not but given the detail the author put in, it certainly felt like the time period. From the music to the character's use of Yardley lip gloss, Love's Baby Soft or even the description of sanitary napkin belts, it was clear to me - having used those products myself - that I was in the 70's. When the story takes place is crucial to the plot. Two girls, 17 and 14, Grace and Jory respectively, live with their evangelical elder father and psychologically hindered mother, along with younger sister Frances in Arco, Idaho. The feminist movement had not set foot in this strict but not overly restrictive home, but readers who are used to living in less structured times might be shocked at what these girls have never experienced. Dad, Oren Quanbeck, is also a professor of astronomy at the local college, which, one would think would serve to create conflict but instead validates Oren's already devout belief system. "Science and religion don't have to be mutually exclusive," he insists. While Oren's world is explainable and makes sense to him, Jory is not so sure. Her sister, Grace, has returned from a missionary trip to Mexico pregnant, and convinced she has been chosen to give birth to a divine child of God. The mystery of her conception, whether divine or not, is mostly inconsequential. Here's where religion and the practical world collide, as dealing with the stigma of an unwed teen, the daughter, no less, of a church elder and school professor and doing right by your own child can lead to making unwise choices. </span><br style="color: #181818; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;" /><br style="color: #181818; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #181818; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">Pregnant Grace, along with her younger sister Jory, are sent off to live in a nearby town alone with only an elderly neighbor to watch over them. To complicate matters, 14-year old Jory is feeling the teen urges to break rules, push limits and experiment. Cue Grip, a 25-ish loner who drives the creepiest of vehicles, an ice cream truck, and seems to provide friendship and solace to Jory now beset with the trauma of moving to a new school and living with her zealot sister, who refuses to explain her behavior. Jory becomes increasingly disillusioned with her family's religion (Mom is nowhere to be seen, usually off lying down with a headache), her sister's crazy situation, and her dad's inability to see that things are not going to be "all right." Grip provides sanity for her and more importantly, friendship as she navigates her way through a secular school for which she has no proper clothes and feels like she's been living under a rock for the past 10 years. Now she's exposed to situations all teens eventually seem to face: drinking, drugs, betrayal and sex. Can she ever go back to the protected ways of her family or will she choose a life outside of her father's protection? </span><br style="color: #181818; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;" /><br style="color: #181818; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;" /><span style="background-color: white; color: #181818; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">Personally, I found this book so engrossing because, while I never experienced the extremes Jory did, there were some parallels to my own life, from the 1969 sea green Chevy Malibu (my sister had one) to the hospital in the book, Good Samaritan, the same name of the hospital where I was born. I like that the story asked hard questions about religious rhetoric, especially when there seems to be an uptick today toward conservatism's least favorable aspects. Feminism sacrificed much to give women a voice and much of traditional patriarchal religion threatens to silence that if we go back. Jory represents the chasm between those two worlds, back in the 1970's. The desire to express yourself pitted against what is or isn't acceptable, according to others. I've been there and have no desire to go back. Regardless of your age, I think you'll find this debut novel an often uncomfortable examination of your own beliefs, or at least open your mind to critical pause, which is what I think every good story should do.</span></span>secret asian girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09463857749771146236noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6152515718435459636.post-15923560801554813422015-08-30T16:54:00.000-05:002015-09-15T22:43:29.811-05:00What secret asian girl is Reading<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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</span> <span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I'm always looking for a sophisticated middle school level series that I can recommend to my library customers of that age who are not yet ready for YA but bored by traditional series. Too often, juvenile fiction is in a rush to appear "cool" by introducing obvious mature subject matter or gets bogged down with complicated fantasy which can be distracting. The Neptune series does mildly disappoint by following the typical "teen outcast finds her unique skill which ultimately makes her popular" theme which I normally find unoriginal but the storyline is so exciting and clever, I often forgot it was juvenile fiction. There is also a hint of teen romance but not so much it renders the protagonist catatonic, an insulting and all too common theme in many popular series. </span><br />
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<span style="background-color: white; color: #181818; font-family: Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 18px;">I probably shouldn't have read all the hype and suspicion surrounding the publication of Go Set a Watchman before reading it. Armed with a prejudice against it, I put it off as long as I could until I could no longer escape the inevitable questions, "Have you read it yet?" "I think I'm going to hate it, did you?" When you work at a library, these are daily fodder. No, I did not hate it. I did strongly dislike the construction of the plot, if you can call it that, but the previews prepared me for that. My first curiosity was of the title, which I looked up and, knowing Ms. Lee's predilection for biblical reference and her age, is from the King James Bible: "For thus hath the Lord said unto me, Go, set a watchman, let him declare what he seeth" (Isaiah 21:6). Since this novel is written from the perspective of the now grown Scout, going by her given name, Jean Louise, I figured it would be about something she is witnessing or realizing for the first time. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">I can't honestly say that I remember this case, which took place here in Texas on June 6, 1996, cleverly, but perhaps unfortunately, labeled "the 6-6-6 murders," which is probably a bad idea if you're trying to find reason to exonerate Darlie Routier, not associate the woman with evil. As author Kathy Cruz reminds us in the first few chapters, Darlie and her husband, Darin, along with their three young sons, Damon, Devon and baby Drake, lived in the Dallas suburb of Rowlett, near Plano. The police report states that 26 year old Darlie claimed she was awakened in the early morning of June 6, 1996 to some disturbance. What happened after that is confusing and jumbled, at least in the book. Darin, who was sleeping upstairs, says he heard his wife scream and found his two older sons stabbed, blood everywhere and his wife hysterical, bleeding from knife wounds. Eventually, no spoiler here, Darlie was found guilty of the murders of both boys and sentenced to death by lethal injection. Almost twenty years later, uncharacteristic of other female murderers, she insists that she is innocent. Intruders, she says, in the house not only committed the killings but also injured her by slashing her throat and cutting her arm almost to the bone, for which she spent several days recovering in the hospital. In the years since the murders, speculation has strengthened regarding the involvement of her husband, Darin, whose shady financial woes and violent temperment could clarify Darlie's murky motive issue. For whatever reason, this angle was never thoroughly investigated. Darlie went to prison. Darin remains free. If Darlie is innocent, who is she covering for? Why didn't Darlie tell anyone but one close relative that she sprung some potentially volatile news on Darin the evening of the murders?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Beyond the linear storyline confusion, I wish the photo layout was more synched with the text. Small, black and white photos of the "players" didn't always match the page the commentary was on. Perhaps a middle of the book photo spread would have been more helpful in following the story. The pictures of Darlie's injuries are gruesome and convincing of Darlie's innocence or at least, incapacity for infliction on herself. I'm not sure how determined (or crazy) you'd have to be to slash your own throat and arm almost to the bone. In 1996, it was accepted for a prosecutor to make the statement that it must have been self-inflicted, that's why she wouldn't slash her expensive, enhanced breasts. I hope that's no longer accepted as "common sense" but you never know, here in Texas, at least that's what the author believes.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Finally, I don't understand why the title is <i>Dateline: Purgatory</i>. The only reference to "purgatory" is the city of Purgatory, Colorado where Darlie met Darin. The definition of purgatory, in a religious context, is the state of being in which sinners purge themselves of their sin before entering the joys of heaven. If the purpose of this book is to exonerate Darlie, and save her from heaven, what was her sin? I'd say, harboring a blind trust in a lazy legal system that has more to gain from a quick fix and has no interest in discovering the truth.</span>secret asian girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09463857749771146236noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6152515718435459636.post-64973825452590996462015-07-16T17:09:00.002-05:002015-08-15T13:37:08.275-05:00Lisa<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Well, I lied. I promised I'd be back and I wasn't. Fortunately, I have a pretty good excuse. A year ago, last August, my only sister Lisa was diagnosed with cancer. Nasopharyngeal cancer, to be specific. The term "blessings and curses" comes to mind because while cancer is definitely a curse, the blessing is that we live in a city that is known worldwide for its cancer research and facility. For the past year, I've seen her go through highs and lows, hours of vomiting to glimpses of feeling "normal." There is nothing more humbling than to see a loved one go through this horrible experience and I wouldn't wish it on anyone - okay, maybe on one person. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">So, there's my excuse. Pretty good one, I guess. We are taking it one day at a time and I am happy to report that the chemo, the radiation and the subsequent psychotherapy has done what it's supposed to do. Now...we wait. I've come to accept, and I think Lisa has too, that feeling vulnerable and being on guard has become a way of life. One of those blessings I was talking about is that she is employed by a company that is very accommodating to her illness. She has good insurance, and she is able to work to maintain her policy which takes care of most of her expenses. Blessings. She says she wants to feel normal again. I know. So do I.</span>secret asian girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09463857749771146236noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6152515718435459636.post-47268440942899457682014-06-15T00:30:00.001-05:002014-06-15T00:30:10.193-05:00Still Here<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Two years is a long time. A lot has happened since I last made an entry here. My son has moved out and I have moved on. I don't adjust well to change but life has a way of not giving you an option to not adjust. Funny, just when I think I've mellowed in my old age and my opinions have dulled edges, I get fired up about something again. Makes you feel alive. More to come.</span>secret asian girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09463857749771146236noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6152515718435459636.post-74366686608360385302012-06-21T12:39:00.001-05:002012-06-21T12:39:15.359-05:00<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">In Houston, summer starts somewhere around mid-March with dry, hot temperatures, much like opening a furnace door and stepping into it. In my mind, that means more time indoors...reading. Fortunately, there's a LOT of new literary offerings out there that are worth your indoor time. I've never read any books by popular author Adriana Trigiani, but recently finished reading <b><i>The Shoemaker's Wife. </i></b>If you're a fan of historical fiction, like I am, but sometimes don't want to invest in one of those 1000 page doorstops, you might consider this one. It's about two Italian immigrants during the early 1900's who live in villages within walking distances of each other. For very different reasons, both end up going to America and, of course, end up together. Their individual journeys are painful, joyous, heart-breaking and redemptive. Together, their stories blend to portray a glimpse into the American immigration experience. The colorful Italian culture they bring with them is vibrant and its intensity adds to the mural of our collective portrait. I think you'll find it sweet and heart-warming. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"> <i><b>Lifeboat</b></i> by Charlotte Rogan is one of those novels that I immediately peg for a book club book - but only for one of those book clubs that actually have vigorous, intelligent discussions about the book. I've yet to find one of those clubs but that's another story. <i>Lifeboat</i></span> <span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">takes place immediately following the catastrophic event that causes these 39 people to be in the boat in the first place. The experience is seen in flashback through the eyes of a privileged young woman shortly after the more famous Titanic sinking, without the societal safety of her rich husband and surrounded by people of all ages and classes. One by one (like in Yann Martel's <b><i>Life of Pi</i></b>) the survivors leave the boat, either by choice or, sometimes, by popular vote. Like many similar stories (the classic <b><i>Bridge of San Luis Rey</i></b> by Thornton Wilder - which I love - comes to mind), a group of disparate people find themselves together in unusual circumstances. What brought these particular people together and is it part of a greater plan or mere coincidence? Who is meant to survive and why is it that one person over another? Where does Fate figure in? Does religion play a part? I'll leave the room....discuss.</span><br />
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<a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-59XmJRyAX8g/T8eOtllPZZI/AAAAAAAABY0/Wm9lfMnOj54/s1600/a+dog%27s+journey.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="200" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-59XmJRyAX8g/T8eOtllPZZI/AAAAAAAABY0/Wm9lfMnOj54/s200/a+dog's+journey.jpg" width="132" /></a><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><i><b>A Dog's Journey</b></i> by W. Bruce Cameron is the true sequel to the very wonderful must-read for all animal lovers, <i><b>A Dog's Purpose</b></i>. It picks up directly at the end of the previous book. If you shy away from animal stories because of the inevitable heart-wrenching endings, fear not. Yes, there are bits of sadness, but anyone who has ever loved and cherished a family member who happens to be covered with fur knows, sadness is part of it. These are very different animal books, told in the unique voice of that spirit which inhabits the animal who chooses you: the special entity who will be your companion throughout your life, even if it is unable to remain in that body for more than 12-15 years. Miraculously, the entity is reborn in another body, with the same spirit, memories and love of your companion, willing to finish his/her life objective: protecting and loving you. As each character is "reborn," we see their loyalty shine through. Sometimes, there is distance to overcome - often, there is the obstacle of cruel or ignorant humans, but always, there is hope. Hope that love will lead you back together - to complete your journey together and in that way, make it through. I cried like a baby through both of these and if you know anything about what I've been through lately, you'll understand how much hope this gives me to one day find Sammy again. Sorry, no choice: READ IT.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">This one appeals to the irreverent, snarky part of me. Seth Grahame-Smith, made famous for his retelling of books like, <i><b>Pride and Prejudice and Zombies</b></i> or more recently (and opening this summer as a movie), <b>Abraham Lincoln, Vampire Hunter.</b> I have to tell you that this concept cracks me up. I love anything that takes an established iconic legend and turns it on its head in the face of stodgy purists. Muahahaha!! I LOVED Abraham Lincoln, Vampire Hunter. I know some people regard me differently when I say that, but it's true. I laughed out loud, and at some point, actually guffawed. Yes, I did. That's why I grabbed <i><b>Unholy Night, </b></i>and I was not disappointed. First off, even though Grahame-Smith is ballsy enough to take on a biblical mega-story like the Bethlehem birth story, it is not disrespectful in any way. If there's negative literary license taken, it's with Herod or Pontius Pilate. The main character is Balthazar, a hapless thief who's gained some notoriety as the "Antioch Ghost," who escapes from the executioners axe with two similarly down on their luck criminals, Mechior and Gaspar. On their way out, they steal some gold, some frankinscence and...um, what was the third thing? Oh yeah, myrrh for their injuries. During their escape from Herod's men, they happen upon a stable temporarily housing a carpenter and his wife nursing their newborn son. Hello. The atheist Balthazar, witnessing Herod's slaughter of babies, takes it upon himself to save the small family in the stable and get them to safety in Egypt. Is it the greatest story never told? In any case, it's a great jumping point for discussion, if your mind is open to it, and a new twist; something Mr. Grahame-Smith is getting quite good at.</span>secret asian girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09463857749771146236noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6152515718435459636.post-89696131717929614242012-02-16T23:16:00.005-06:002012-05-31T11:27:48.002-05:00Post Surgery<div style="text-align: left;">
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">I was telling the vet why I think Mao is a Japanese Bobtail: long legs, very vocal, athletic...loves water. Actually, she has a love/hate relationship with water. The first time she saw it (after I rescued her) she watched me in the bath with a look of fascination and fear. She's sat on the edge of the tub ever since. Tristan says, "She watched you take a bath? </span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">It wasn't the water that scared her." I have no idea where that boy gets his sarcasm...</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"><b>Update:</b> Mao's surgery went great. She's up and moving around -- kinda traumatized, still a little scared....definitely pissed. </span></span></div>secret asian girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09463857749771146236noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6152515718435459636.post-33900720019145930072012-02-03T21:40:00.002-06:002012-02-03T21:40:41.852-06:00Voice Mail<div style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif; text-align: center;">On the phone with the lawn guy...Mao climbs up the back of my leg and bites me on the butt cheek! So the message I left on his voice mail was, "Hi, can you come by this week and mow my lawwwAAIGGGHHHHGGH!! MOTHER F...!!" (beep)</div>secret asian girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09463857749771146236noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6152515718435459636.post-45776000308723041122012-01-11T15:49:00.001-06:002012-01-17T23:40:43.296-06:00George<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-tq4fYgwyXGQ/Tw4Dq4B_rhI/AAAAAAAABWk/yuSQ3jDL6is/s1600/george.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="320" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-tq4fYgwyXGQ/Tw4Dq4B_rhI/AAAAAAAABWk/yuSQ3jDL6is/s320/george.jpg" width="240" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">Oh myyyyyyyyy....</span></div>secret asian girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09463857749771146236noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6152515718435459636.post-12601373482781378972012-01-11T11:07:00.003-06:002012-01-11T11:08:55.512-06:00Rescue<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-PfetO4zxHwc/Tw2_vAbjRlI/AAAAAAAABWE/2DnyVRgE0kc/s1600/Maolibrarykitt.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: left; float: left; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="150" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/-PfetO4zxHwc/Tw2_vAbjRlI/AAAAAAAABWE/2DnyVRgE0kc/s200/Maolibrarykitt.jpg" width="200" /></a><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-CZkbYF8ASEk/Tw3AbTYwwPI/AAAAAAAABWU/yIF81ak83zs/s1600/Maowindow2.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-CZkbYF8ASEk/Tw3AbTYwwPI/AAAAAAAABWU/yIF81ak83zs/s320/Maowindow2.jpg" width="320" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">When I saved Mao,</span></span><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;"> who knew that a year later, </span></span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">she would save me.</span></span></div>secret asian girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09463857749771146236noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6152515718435459636.post-20427128724214524242012-01-01T10:42:00.000-06:002012-01-01T10:42:02.104-06:00Goodbye 2011<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-qLQCyvDd21Y/TwCMu97TGGI/AAAAAAAABV8/lmcHsm4rpqY/s1600/blackcatNewYear.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="278" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-qLQCyvDd21Y/TwCMu97TGGI/AAAAAAAABV8/lmcHsm4rpqY/s400/blackcatNewYear.jpg" width="400" /></a></div>secret asian girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09463857749771146236noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6152515718435459636.post-52416131068813623662011-12-23T20:08:00.002-06:002011-12-23T23:15:07.291-06:00MAOIE Christmas<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-PgthKGoytdQ/TvUxqbFMU2I/AAAAAAAABVw/NMDGoe_2ZuU/s1600/Mao+Christmas.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="248" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-PgthKGoytdQ/TvUxqbFMU2I/AAAAAAAABVw/NMDGoe_2ZuU/s400/Mao+Christmas.jpg" width="400" /></a></div><br />
<span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">Maomao has been a great distraction for me these past few weeks. I'm trying hard to get her to love me and she's trying hard to remind me that she's still a little bit wild inside. I have to remember that Mao lost a companion too when Sam died. Recently, she's become more social with us, as if trying to own us but on her terms. One way she shows me is by attacking me whenever I whistle. She hates whistling but only bites me. I used to think she was mad that I whistle but now I think that when she rakes my foot with her claws or clamps onto my eyebrow with her teeth, she's simply trying to train ME. Christmas carols are especially offensive to her. It doesn't matter whether it's Michael Buble on my iTunes or Tony Bennett on television, she immediately comes over to me and sinks her still kitten-sharp teeth into my skin whenever she hears it. People say, "Why do you whistle if you know she's going to react like that?" I think I'm trying to see if it's just a fluke or if I am really interacting with her. All of my pets have always communicated with me in some way. Mao keeps me at paw's length but I can tell that as long as we are "talking," we have a bond. I think it's sort of cute, in a way. I just have to keep the Neosporin handy, that's all. This Christmas, our house is dark and my heart is heavy. But inside, I'm trying my best to coax a small black cat out from the underneath and maybe...just maybe, into my empty arms. Merry Christmas.</span></span>secret asian girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09463857749771146236noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6152515718435459636.post-82628058505926284802011-12-14T19:40:00.006-06:002012-01-01T10:43:23.840-06:00Climbing Back Up<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-5rv7H5q5148/TulIiPoq0NI/AAAAAAAABVU/OXoTztbYak8/s1600/maobox1.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"></a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Zsk0FuqTkx0/TulFlk-M5yI/AAAAAAAABVE/lcAY5dkVqLo/s1600/Beautiful+Sam.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" height="240" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-Zsk0FuqTkx0/TulFlk-M5yI/AAAAAAAABVE/lcAY5dkVqLo/s320/Beautiful+Sam.jpg" width="320" /> </a></div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><span style="font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: Verdana,sans-serif;">Overcoming grief is a little like climbing out of a very deep, dark hole. A part of you doesn't want to make the effort to ascend because it's an affirmation, an acceptance that everything has changed. It's like resurfacing, but missing one of your arms. I don't feel whole. Some might say that's the definition of depression. Whatever it is, I am definitely not in the holiday mood. This Christmas, there's a hole in my heart. And at least for now, I want to keep it that way. I miss you, Sammy.</span></span></div><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-djtNcPfIanA/TulOatV3edI/AAAAAAAABVk/oUBl5jSg6ho/s1600/maobox1b.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="clear: right; float: right; margin-bottom: 1em; margin-left: 1em;"></a>secret asian girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09463857749771146236noreply@blogger.com0